A Cup of Tea

picture 1Nan-in, a Japanese master during the Meiji era (1868-1912), received a university professor who came to inquire about Zen.

Nan-in served tea. He poured his visitor’s cup full, and then kept on pouring.

The professor watched the overflow until he no longer could restrain himself. “It is overfull. No more will go in!”

“Like this cup,” Nan-in said, “you are full of your own opinions and speculations. How can I show you Zen unless you first empty your cup?”

Just like the cup of tea, a woman’s mind is constantly occupied by, routine, family, errands, etc… Most times she has no time to focus on pleasure and enjoy the present moment with you.

But don’t worry there are many ways you can seduce her mind and get her relaxed.

Her Potent Sexual Mind

Viagra has failed in their attempts to produce a female version of the drug.

It took scientists eight years and roughly 3,000 women to figure out that a woman’s primary sexual organ is her mind, which cannot be incorporated in a pill, at least not yet.

A woman’s sexual mind can be very potent. It’s what you say, how you make her feel, how you touch her.

Passion fuels a woman’s sexuality and makes it come alive.

The art of seduction is a treasure women love in a man. Seducing her mind and not her body first, provokes the desire and erotic impulses throughout her body resulting in wetness in her vagina.

The wetting process is a key element to achieving orgasms. You really can’t have great sex without first creating the desire, passion and wetness.

When a woman has an incredible orgasm, she’s absent from thought!

Take her sexual mind for a wild ride just days or hours before you see her by sending her an erotic message or e-mail. This provokes desire and anticipation, beforehand.

Her mind will start racing with all the possibilities of what might happen when she finally sees you. You are taking her out of her daily routine.


Leading her to Present

For a woman to experience a full orgasm she has to allow herself to let go and be completely vulnerable.

She has to surrender to her lover. The only way she can be taken with intense pleasure is to be relaxed.

A great way to get her relaxed is to give her a non-sexual massage and ask her to close her eyes while listening to the sound of your voice.

Help her relax by asking her to lay back and let herself go, and be present in the moment with you.

In that moment, she can put her mental chatter and distractions behind the scenes. It’s the only way to attune her body so she can immerse herself in exquisite pleasure.

The best advice I can give is to keep her in a constant state of anticipation and arousal. The rewards are fantastic, and the sensations are out of this world.

And always remember… for a woman it all starts upstairs before moving downstairs.

What exactly happens during lovemaking? Time falls right out of the sky. In that moment, a flood of great joy and pleasure wipes out the worries of our regular framed life.

 Cover Art By | Pablo Picasso