Curiosity is my driving force and impermanence is my motivation. I have a mindset of lifetime improvement. I travel, read, explore, share, and practice what I learn.
Not only does my curiosity involve having unique experiences, I also have a burning desire to learn how our culture, media, religion, environment and tech shape our sexual beliefs and behaviours.
I’ve traveled to over 60 countries, attended numerous workshops, engaged in over a thousand conversations with men, women, couples and anyone who is willing to share their most intimate sexual practices, experiences, pleasures, and frustrations.
I’ve had the pleasure of spending time in countries like India, Thailand and Bali learning Tantric and Taoist teachings.
I don’t have a PHD in sexuality, so I can’t conduct great research experiments like, Richard von Krafft-Ebing, Dr. Grafenberg and OMGYes.com.
But, what I specialize in is integrating Ancient sexual wisdom with science and figuring out how it applies to the human of today who has endless stimulation options and disconnected from their bodies.
For more than 14 years, I have been exploring sexual health, sexual pleasure, and the art of lovemaking.
I’ve also worked for a Dr. who pioneered the G-spot amplification procedure and decided to be a guinea-pig for his research (we’ll get back to that).
I am not a guru. I have a burning desire to upgrade the way we learn and approach sexuality.
Until my early twenties I was only able to have clitoral orgasms through masturbation combined with visual stimulation but never through penetration.
I went as far as getting my G-spot injected, hoping this would explain my vaginal insensitivity and allow me the possibility to experience orgasm during sex, but it didn’t work for me, because I was forcing something to happen.
Sex always fell short of my desired and ultimate fulfillment and left me feeling disconnected — disconnected from my body, my partner and from the whole sexual experience.
To reach fulfillment I consumed a lot of chocolate and even that didn’t work.
It wasn’t until I met an older gentleman, who taught me how to slow down, relax, trust, surrender, and connect with myself and with each other.
This man made it safe for me to be vulnerable and taught me what it means to really surrender.
I wanted to explore my deepest desires with him and try things I’ve never tried with anyone else because I felt safe, respected, loved and adored.
At the time he knew more about my body than I did and for the first time I had an orgasm during sex. Very soon after I experienced multiple orgasms.
In a short time my frustrations, unfulfilling habits, self-limiting beliefs and assumptions had all changed.
I discovered that learning and educating people from all walks of life is the most valuable way to translate and transfer knowledge about sexuality, roadblocks, opportunities, and desires.
I am using my insights and experiences as my credentials to speak and share everything I have learned throughout the years and keep learning about sexuality.
My Purpose: End The Sexual Dark Ages
I want to create a world where there is NO SEXUAL SHAME. Our bodies are celebrated, honored and understood.
I impart my knowledge and experience to give you the necessary tools, guidance and resources to become confident lovers.
This is your opportunity to learn and explore new possibilities.