“Sex lies in the root of life, and we can never learn to appreciate life until we know how to understand sex.” Havelock Ellis

Throughout my travels to 60+ countries I’ve seen first hand the unhappiness that is caused by sexual shame, guilt and anxiety.

No one is born with the emotion of shameguilt or anxiety. These are all learned emotions.

How can we fully enjoy one of life’s greatest pleasures and truly embrace it as a healthy and enjoyable experience when openly talking about sex still  remains taboo and uncomfortable.

We read about sex, we talk about sex, and some watch porn to learn how to have sex, but when we are naked with someone else, we forget how to relax and be ourselves.

In no other place can we be so free as when we are with our lover – naked, private, and intimate.

It’s also one place where many feel un-free, hung up, unfulfilled and filled with fear, shame, anxiety, and uncertainty.

We haven’t created an intimate relationship with our bodies to get acquainted on a deeper level and understand how our sexual anatomy really works.

What we are missing is knowledge, depth, affection, caring, friendship, intimacy, communication, playfulness, laughter and love.

Why ConfidentLovers?

  • Because sexual shame and ignorance limits healthy sexual discovery.
  • Because our sexual expressions change at different stages in our lives.
  • Because it’s about integrating mind, body, and spirit.
  • Because sex can be deep, unpredictable, experimental, playful, wild, awkward, uncertain, and full of mystery.

The more we experience and learn about sexuality the more we realize its unlimited potential. Increasing our sexual knowledge gives us the opportunity to explore sex in ways we didn’t realize was possible.

We replace performance, shame, guilt, lack of emotional awareness and anxiety with beautypleasurelaughter and freedom.

We gain sexual confidence and find new richness of intimacy, openness, and communication. We reach deeper levels of passion, and self-awareness.

Too many people are trapped in destructive, repetitive habits – doing things they don’t want to do, uncertain and afraid to change, try new things, and ask for what they want.

Men need to know more about women’s sexuality and women need to know more about men’s sexuality.

Only then can we have the confidence to enjoy one of life’s deepest and greatest pleasures.

ConfidentLovers is created for the people who no longer benefit from living in a world of taboos. Instead they crave depth, pleasure & connection.

Do not believe anything because it is said by an authority, or if it’s said to come from angels, or from Gods, or from an inspired source.

Believe it only if you have explored it in your own heart and mind and body and found it to be true.” ~Buddha