I am in constant admiration when I meet men who take the time and effort to learn the arts of sexuality and love. Learning how to cultivate his staying power and creating a healthy balance [...]

Like most men, I’ve spent most of my life believing there was only one type of male orgasm – ejaculation. At the age of 64, I discovered tantra, and a whole new world has opened [...]

Last week I wrote and article titled “Why Do Men Feel The NEED To Ejaculate Every Time They Have Sex?” I asked the men in the audience if they practice ejaculation control and if so [...]

Over the years I’ve asked many men what is their attachment to ejaculation? In other words, why do most men have the ‘need’ to ejaculate every time they have sex? Common answers: Because it feels [...]

Having uncomfortable conversations with kids is challenging for parents. Having intimate conversations with teenagers is even harder. Growing up in the United States my parents worked hard and provided me with food, shelter and love. [...]

There has been so much debate around the topic of circumcision and it’s still hard to say if this practice should be continued as a default gold standard in both customary and cultural settings or [...]

A lingam is an ancient Sanskrit term used to describe the penis. It's translated to "Shaft of Light” or “Wand of Light.” What is a lingam massage? It's a massage of the male genitals using a [...]

Almost all men at some point in their life experience Erectile Dysfunction. Often women wonder what is going on with him and what to do about it. Many men feel embarrassed or ashamed to talk to [...]

When men reach out to me; it's usually about their fears around having and sustaining erections. Men just like women worry about being enough and getting it on. And in our culture, it's all about penetrative [...]

You’ve been led to believe that sex is all about your penis right? Not necessarily – of course your penis is involved, but how well do you understand and feel your: Body Energy Arousal Ejaculation [...]