Last week I wrote and article titled “Why Do Men Feel The NEED To Ejaculate Every Time They Have Sex?” I asked the men in the audience if they practice ejaculation control and if so [...]

Over the years I’ve asked many men what is their attachment to ejaculation? In other words, why do most men have the ‘need’ to ejaculate every time they have sex? Common answers: Because it feels [...]

There has been so much debate around the topic of circumcision and it’s still hard to say if this practice should be continued as a default gold standard in both customary and cultural settings or [...]

A lingam is an ancient tantric term used to describe the penis. In Sanskrit, it’s translated to "Shaft of Light” or “Wand of Light.” A lingam massage is a massage of the male genitals using [...]

Almost all men at some point in their life experience Erectile Dysfunction. Often women wonder what is going on with him and what to do about it. Many men feel embarrassed or ashamed to talk to [...]

When men reach out to me; it's usually about their fears around having and sustaining erections. Men just like women worry about being enough and getting it on. And in our culture, it's all about penetrative [...]

You’ve been led to believe that sex is all about your penis right? Not necessarily – of course your penis is involved, but how well do you understand and feel your: Body Energy Arousal Ejaculation [...]

  The best part about my work is when I engage in conversations with men, women and couples who share their sexual pleasures and anxieties. I am always amazed at how much anxiety, shame and [...]

In the 1970’s the term Deep Throat had a few meanings in America. One meaning was associated with the Watergate Scandal and the other was the Erotic term that became very popular after the success [...]

At a talk I gave a while ago to a group of men a question was asked, a common question at talks. One of the men asked about anal/prostate stimulation and penetration. […]