The Vibrator Ruined My Marriage
One of my friends is going through a divorce and he keeps saying, “The vibrator ruined my marriage.” Of course this is not exactly a true statement as there are many variables that lead to a [...]
The 3 Stages Of Love – Where Are You?
I’m a huge fan of disillusionment. Having an illusion ripped away from us can be profoundly liberating. Dorothy had to discover the Wizard of Oz was just a conman before she could discover she already [...]
Do Sexual Boundaries Prevent Us From Experiencing Pleasure?
I was recently having dinner with a gentleman I just met. We were having a general introductory discussion and after I told him what I did for a living, he leaned in and asked, “How can [...]
How To Be A More Confident Lover & Partner
There is generally one question men tend to ask in different forms. How can I become more Confident with women? I have never found a set formula, and I don’t believe there is one. What [...]
If A Woman Can’t Orgasm – Is It A Man’s Fault?
A question I often get asked from men is - “my girlfriend/wife has a hard time orgasming during sex - why? While there can be many reasons for this, often there are common links. For [...]
Why A Woman Should NEVER Be Called A Slut
A few days ago I was sitting at a café in Belgrade, Serbia when I started chatting with a very attractive older woman. She was in her 50’s – confident, classy and dynamic. We had [...]
How Confidence, Creativity & Sexuality Are Connected
As I develop my sexuality I often can’t help but feel the connection between creativity, confidence, and sexual energy. I find that within my body there is a force that requires growth and creative expression [...]
Sexual Fears – The Fear Of Being Bad In Bed
I am writing this, because a family member very close to me has experienced shame, fear and deep insecurities with his sexuality. It wasn’t until he met a very powerful and sexually confident woman who [...]
Why My Most Painful Breakup Was The Best Gift
One day I woke up to a humbling realization. I wasted so much precious time by being in a painful broken relationship that had reached a point where I felt it couldn’t be fixed. For [...]
8 Reasons Why Women Experience Pain During Sex
My lover and I had been together for 6 years when one day I experienced one of the most excruciating pains I had ever felt during sex. He was a very patient lover, and for [...]
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