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What is Passionate “Erotic Talk ”?

Lovers use erotic talk as a way of expressing their desires in the heat of the moment – verbally sharing what the body and heart are experiencing.

Through erotic talk, we learn about our lover’s desires as well as stimulate and heighten our sexual senses and experience.

Words bring immediate consciousness to our bodies, arousing our imagination and curiosity.

We gain knowledge about our pleasures, sensitivities, and insecurities. Sharing creates intimacy and openness.

 Surrendering to Your Voice

Women love romance novels, they also love to fantasize. Their fantasies are usually very erotic and far more elaborate than men.

Words have power and can captivate her mind, which then creates the wetness in her vagina. Don’t underestimate the power of your voice.

Your voice is a very potent tool for releasing sexual desires. The way you “say it” can be more powerful than what you say.

Erotic talk isn’t just about saying words, it’s about the sounds you make, the tone of your voice and the confidence you radiate. You must be authentic and comfortable.

Whispering can also be very effective, because you have to get close to her ear. For some women this is an erogenous hot spot.

It’s also very seductive and sensual when you whisper in a woman’s ear as she can feel your breathing.

When a woman is able to surrender to her lover emotionally, physically, and mentally, she will have the ultimate sexual experience. That’s when you know she’s reached her sexual peak.

Communication is very powerful, because during lovemaking it shifts from thinking to feeling and from doing to being.

Learning how to trigger powerful sexual emotions with your voice and touch allows her to act out her fantasies and be whatever she desires to be.

Benefits of Erotic Communication:

  • Being present.
  • Creating anticipation.
  • Awakening her sexual senses.
  • Captivating her mind and building sexual arousal.
  • Learning about each other so there is no second-guessing.
  • Creating intimacy by saying and doing things you wouldn’t normally do if you weren’t in an aroused state.

Most women enjoy erotic talk in some form. Some women love the passionate erotic talk while others like it a bit naughty.

Example of Passionate Erotic talk:
“I crave everything that is you. I love your sultry, hypnotizing moves.”

Example of Playful/Naughty Erotic Talk:
“What would you prefer first, my tongue, my fingers or my cock.”

Sensual:

  • I love kissing you.
  • You look so sexy right now. I can’t wait to have you.
  • I love pleasing you.
  • The sounds of your pleasure drive me crazy.
  • It feels so good being inside you.
  • I feel so close to you.

 Naughty:

  • Stand right there and let me undress you baby.
  • I love it when you use your tongue like that.
  • I love how your hot mouth feels on me.
  • You taste so good.
  • I really like it when you…
  • I could spend hours between your legs: licking, sucking, and tasting you.

One of the sexiest things a man can do is narrate to a woman what he’s going to do to her in advance, but don’t make promises you can’t keep.

Have fun with erotic communication. Don’t try to figure out something sexy to say to her – just be genuine.

Say whatever suits your personality; authenticity is important, otherwise you will sound fake.  Anything that comes from the heart is authentic and sincere.

Cover Photo By| John Silver

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