There are generally two types of lovers –  pounders and pleasers.

Pounders are the type of lovers who thrust their penises in and out as quickly as they can. They start fast and finish fast.

The pounder shows no sensitivity toward his lover or any finesse in his moves. There is no emotion behind his motion.

One woman explained – she feels as if such a man is only capable of expressing his dark side filled with rage rather than love. That’s the type of lover she never wants to experience again, because she can never feel comfortable or safe with him.

The pleaser, on the other hand, is admired for understanding that lovemaking is an intimate experience shared by two people.

He recognises that variety is the spice of life—that intimacy can be expressed in many different ways, and that sex does not have to look or feel the same every time.

He is attentive to his partner, responsive to her needs and emotions, and understands that true pleasure comes from creating a connection that feels good and meaningful for both.

Great ‘CocksManship’ is about expression, it’s about using your penis as a tool to communicate the passion you feel or the love you have for your lover.

Sex is about feeling… not about performing.

Here are Four CocksManship Tips to help you become a better lover.

CocksManship Tip #1:

Don’t use Porn as a reference. Porn is the worst form of entertainment out there, but the worst part is how many people use it for reference and education.

If you are going in-and-out as quickly as possible, without any rhythm, and thrusting with maximum force you will lack focus and have no awareness of her erogenous zones.

You can NOT become a great lover watching actors whose sole purpose is to arouse the viewer, not their partner.

CocksManship Tip #2:

Lovemaking is ultimately a dance of two people in rhythm and harmony. It’s not supposed to be mechanical, predictable or artless, it’s not a performance.  If you start off with hard, quick and deep insertions where are you going to go from there?

Give yourself slowly and passionately so you have time to increase your speed, intensity, depth and rhythm. How can you increase anything if you are giving everything in the beginning?

CocksManship Tip #3:

Sensitize her body with your touch, lips, bites and licks.  You sensitize her body by keeping things to a minimum in the beginning, because for women anticipation is everything.

CocksManship Tip #4:

Your Penis is a magic wand and it has the capability to produce a wide range of feelings in women, as well as orgasms of many types.

Great lovemaking is ultimately connection, presence and surrender. You have something of real value to offer, don’t give yourself away all at once and most importantly don’t undervalue what you offer as a lover.