It would not be easy to number the things I have learned in the two years since falling in love with another man. Although if I did, I might discover that the number is actually [...]

It’s exciting when we first start talking with someone new—but when is too soon to start having sex? We live in a different society than we did even a decade ago. Sex is everywhere, and [...]

I’m 41. Until recently, when a woman over 40 checked out my dating profile, the first thought that always popped in my head was “too old”–and then I quickly moved on. I would literally think, “Why is [...]

Today, I was in a small shop filled with Valentine’s day gifts, when a man came hurrying in and started looking around like he was looking for gold. He kept looking over the merchandise while [...]

There is much conversation today about gender equality, sensuality, and sexuality. We talk about these things because our deep and ever present desire is to express ourselves, or experience life through love.  We want to [...]

Don't drop your ego.  Don't even try. This may seem like a strange thing for someone who teaches a practice called Zen Warrior Training to say. Isn't dropping the ego the whole idea of Zen?  [...]

Most people just fall in love and hope for the best –here’s how to do much better than just hope… I’ll admit it, I’m one of the luckiest guys on the planet when it comes [...]

Sexual guilt is a struggle, which takes place within ourselves, – self imposed in our own minds. Sexual guilt holds us back from open, spontaneous, and authentic expressions because we hide inside a shell filled [...]

Many relationships and marriages often fail because of how two people grow as the relationship matures. There are many facets of a relationship, but two primary things happen in the cycle of every relationship. The [...]