Every accomplished artist was first an amateur. Giving oral pleasure is one of the most intimate and erotic sensations you can give to a woman.

Your passionate mouth makes her feel wanted, admired and radiant. I give men a lot of praise who kneel at the altar of Venus and gaze at her erotic and elegant masterpiece.

A vulva is a mystery to most men and given the artwork below, vulva’s come in many varieties and no two are alike.

Art By: The Great Wall Of Vagina

 Today, I am going to share with you the most exquisite guide to giving her oral pleasure.

#1 – Don’t Use Porn As A Reference

In porn, often times the man’s head is tilted sideways as he flicks his tongue up and down – this is specifically done for camera angle.

This position is designed for good entertainment, not for connection or pleasure. A tongue flicking sideways is no match for a passionate mouth.

#2 – A Vulva Enjoys The 3P’s

Patience

Often times most men make the mistake of rushing, what’s the point of rushing her to arousal or orgasm? A vulva/vagina doesn’t respond as quickly as a penis does to stimulation.

When you rush to get her aroused or to orgasm, it have can have the opposite effect. Pleasure is never meant to be mechanical it’s meant to be artistic, so take your time to build her arousal and sensuality.

Persistence

Pay attention to her body movements and her responses as she gets more and aroused. The more aroused she becomes the more you’ll have to adjust your pressure and speed if she wants to have an orgasm.

Passionate tongue

Nothing turns a woman on more than a soft, wet, hot passionate tongue.

#3 – Tease Before You Please

Less is more in the beginning. A slow approach builds excitement.

Don’t just go for the grand prize (her clitoris) and start tonguing her clitoris with speed and intensity, instead build her arousal by creating anticipation and teasing her.

When a woman is not yet fully aroused, going straight for her clitoris in the beginning may cause her pain or just annoy her, because she’s not yet ready to be touched there.

There is an exception for every rule. On some occasions she’s already aroused and ready to accept your tongue without any teasing.

Alternatively kiss her inner thighs, this is a highly sensitive area for a lot of women because of the delicate skin and all the nerve endings.

Work your way up to her perineum and the entrance of her vagina.

#4 – Licking All Her Lips

Tongue her inner and outer lips slowly and playfully.

There is a lot of erectile tissue in these beautiful lips and every woman’s sensitivity is going to vary.

#5 – A Good Lovers Hands Never Stop Moving

As your wonderful tongue caresses her vulva, you can intensify her pleasure by slowly sliding your index or middle finger into her vagina, or sensually touching her breasts.

Having your fingers inside her or touching her sensually multiplies her sensations.

Another great way to use your fingers is to part her outer lips using your thumb and index finger. Massage her outer lips while giving her oral pleasure.

As your wonderful tongue caresses her vulva, you can intensify her pleasure by slowly sliding your index or middle finger into her vagina, or sensually touching her breasts.

Having your fingers inside her or touching her sensually multiplies her sensations.

Another great way to use your fingers is to part her outer lips using your thumb and index finger. Massage her outer lips while giving her oral pleasure.

# 6 – Penetrate Her With Your Tongue

This feels divine because the entrance of the vagina is filled with so many sensitive nerve endings.

After she’s been properly teased with pleasure, now her clitoris wants your tongues attention.

#7 – Setup a Rhythm & Don’t Let Go

Once you feel she’s about to orgasm, set up a rhythm and stay with it. When she starts having an orgasm, don’t stop unless she asks you to.

Nothing upsets a woman more than drifting off her sweet spot when she’s on a brink of an orgasm.

Bonus Tip – The Cat’s Meow 

The thrill of a pleasant surprise can have amazing effects on her when she least expects it. This can heighten her excitement levels dramatically.

Some women love having their anus licked or rubbed. If you are up for it, try it and see how she responds.

For some women receiving oral pleasure is the source of her most intense orgasm.

Every woman receives pleasure differently – some women love and crave oral pleasure, while others don’t feel any pleasure at all.

Take your time, pay attention to her body language, and most importantly enjoy yourself.

Be creative and remember that variety is the spice of life and the combinations are endless. Your imagination is your only limitation.

Bon Appetit